A Prayer For Our Times
Unsound judgments and faulty moral reasoning are not the lot of leaders alone — but also of those who support them.
As all of us ordinary citizens recovered from the carnage in Pulwama, and wondered how the government would respond to this latest instance of cross-border terrorism, one television channel showed us poignant images of grieving relatives of the fallen soldiers. While a few, driven by moral hatred for the perpetrators, were understandably crying for revenge, others, even at this moment of utmost suffering, spoke of the futility of retaliation. “It would only bring similar suffering to fellow humans,” said one widow from the rural hinterland. Hers was a cry for peace, not for vengeful violence. “War can only be the last resort, after everything else has failed,” she wisely counselled.
War and patriotism
Yes, war is sometimes necessary, especially in self-defence. But one doesn’t have to be an unconditional pacifist to acknowledge the misfortunes it begets or to decry war mongering. Nor is readiness to go to war the only indicator of patriotism. True, patriots must be prepared to die in defence of their ‘patria’, their mother or fatherland. But one is not any less a patriot if one strives for everyone in his country living peacefully, happily, flourishing, leading life to its fullness. Fighting the daily challenges faced by their countrymen, seeking to improve their lot, always loving them and their habitat, and expressing this love in word or deed as the occasion demands is the everyday vocation of a patriot.
A country at war is different. War is disruptive, and because it is lethal and involves human sacrifice, a patriot must eschew any bravado about it. This is particularly expected from contemporary leaders, patriots who never themselves go to war; quite unlike the past where the ruler who declared war was expected to always lead from
the front on the battlefield. After all, it is our Army officers and jawans who die, not the ones who call for and support war. Our rulers move about with elaborate security to protect their own lives. If they don’t allow others to play with their lives, they must ensure that no one plays with the life of their countrymen, most of all our soldiers. Decisions on war must then be taken responsibly, without haste, not for spectacular effect or as tactical ploys in a game.
The inner workings of the human mind are mysterious, however. For it is not these thoughts that crossed my mind when I saw those moving images on television. This reasoning is retrospective; thoughts that have occurred to me now, post-facto. At that time, a strange melange of emotions — feelings of grief, despair, shame, nostalgia — curdled up and then suddenly, from nowhere, the lyrics of an immortal song by Sahir Ludhianvi, set to tune by Jaidev and sung melodiously by Lata Mangeshkar in the 1961 Dev Anand classic Hum Dono, came unbidden to mind: “Maangon ka sindoor na chhutey, maa behenon ki aas naa tootey (may no one be widowed; may no mother or sister lose hope of their loved one returning).”
Prayer for peace and wisdom
In the film, these lines are part of a prayer for peace led by the wife and mother of a Major of the Indian Army missing in action — a prayer not only that their own loved one returns home safe but that no wife, mother or sister may lose loved ones in war. Death in war is an interruption, an anomaly. It takes away from us young, active, lively persons who have not yet lived their full life. When a soldier dies in the prime of life, he leaves many tasks unfinished, many relationships incomplete, millions of desires unfulfilled. And according to popular belief, when a person at the height of his powers meets a bloody, violent, untimely end, his prana or atman remains in limbo, trapped in no man’s land; it leaves the body without reaching wherever it is meant to go and keeps hovering around us. May this never happen to anyone, says the poet. “Deh bina bhatke na praan (may the spirit not abruptly detach from the body and wander restlessly).”
But this mellifluous song is more than a comforting prayer for peace. It subtly points fingers at those who injudiciously push us into war, at the economically strong and politically powerful who bring war upon us for their own benefit, to serve their own nefarious purpose. “O saare jag ke rakhawaale, nirbal ko bal dene waale, balwaanon ko de de gyaan (jnana) (you, who watch over the entire universe, you who empower the weak, may you also grant wisdom to the mighty).”
Jnana here refers not simply to knowledge, but to wisdom, moral insight, indeed to conscience. May the rulers rule with a conscience! May they be able to distinguish right conduct from wrong. Really, only such people should guide us when we are faced with the dilemma of whether or not to undertake morally retributive action.
And this is not all. The prayer then becomes a plea that we all be endowed with sanmati — to put our intelligence to good use, to have sound judgments, that all have a conscience. Why? Because unsound judgments, faulty moral
reasoning and suspension of good sense are not the lot of leaders alone but also of those who support them and legitimise their actions. It is after all we, ordinary folks, who are swayed by war hysteria. Those without good sense get the leaders they deserve. May the gift of sanmati be bestowed on us. For only people with sanmati can rein in leaders who have lost all sense of good and bad, right and wrong.
A civilisational anchor
But who is this prayer addressed to? “Allah tero naam, Ishwar tero naam (You, whose name is both Allah and Ishwar). In this, his masterstroke, Sahir invokes not only Gandhi, but an entire, centuries-old religio-philosophical legacy of the subcontinent in which all traditions are believed to share the same semantic universe that enables the god of one religion to be translated into the god of another. This is inclusive monotheism at its best, where god is one but referred to in different traditions by different names. And so, the prayer is addressed to Allah, Ishwar, and implicitly to the god of every religion.
With men spewing venom, not satisfied with fighting a war with their own fellow countrymen, itching to go to war with others, nothing (empathy, reason, dialogue) seems to work. Helpless spectators, no longer in control of their collective life, in sight of a looming disaster on the horizon, often break into a prayer. What else can those stripped of agency do but hope that somehow good sense may prevail, that all of us be delivered from the collective insanity that shows no sign of loosening its grip? Thus, those who believe in one god, invoke him; those who believe in gods and goddesses, invoke them; and those who believe in neither, hope for some good fortune to fall in their lap! This is why this is a prayer for our times: we offer this prayer to you, Allah to some, Ishwar to others, that you miraculously bring an end to needless killings, wisdom and conscience to the rich and powerful, and peace and good sense to everyone.
Courtesy: The Hindu (National)
- Poignant (Adjective): Meaning: evoking a keen sense of sadness or regret. (मार्मिक)
Synonyms: Distressing, Tragic, Mournful, Plaintive, Dolorous
Antonyms: Unemotional, Unmoving, Dull
Example: It is especially poignant that he died on the day before the wedding.
- Vengeful (Adjective): Meaning: seeking to harm someone in return for a perceived injury. (तामर्िक, बदला लेनेवाला)
Synonyms: Vindictive, Spiteful, Rancorous, Revengeful
Antonyms: Merciful, Forgiving, Condoning
Example: He was stabbed to death by his vengeful wife.
- Eschew (Verb): Meaning: deliberately avoid using; abstain from. (त्याग करना, परहेज़ करना)
Synonyms: Shun, Elude, Duck, Parry, Daff
Antonyms: Embrace, Pursue, Seek, Accept
Example: A civilised leader must eschew violence.
- Bravado (Noun): Meaning: A swaggering show of courage; a bold manner or a show of boldness intended to impress or intimidate. (िाहि प्रदर्िन, डींग)
Synonyms: Bluster, Machismo, Bragging, Swashbuckling
Antonyms: Modesty, Cowardice, Bashfulness
Example: Take no notice of his threats they’re sheer bravado.
- Haste (Noun): Meaning: excessive speed or urgency of movement or action; hurry.( जल्दबाजी, हड़बड़ी)
Synonyms: Swiftness, Expedition, Celerity, Flurry
Antonyms: Sluggishness, Leisure, Lingering
Example: Accuracy is not always compatible with haste.
- Anomaly (Noun): Meaning: something that deviates from what is standard, normal, or expected. (र्विंगर्त, र्नयमहीनता)
Synonyms: Aberration, Peculiarity, Incongruity, Oddity
Antonyms: Normality, Conformity, Usualness
Example: Pohnpei is an anomaly – it’s a Pacific island without a beach.
- Nefarious (Adjective) : Meaning: (typically of an action or activity) wicked or criminal. (कुर्िल, अर्त दुष्ट )
Synonyms: Vicious, Villainous, Odious, Impious, Vile
Antonyms: Virtuous, Ethical, Righteous, Moral
Example: The bomber’s nefarious deed destroyed many innocent lives.
- Hysteria (Noun): Meaning: exaggerated or uncontrollable emotion or excitement. (उन्माद)
Synonyms: Frenzy, Delirium, Mania, Fury, Turmoil
Antonyms: Serenity, Tranquility, Placidity, Repose
Example: He could whip a crowd into hysteria.
- Venom (Noun): Meaning: extreme malice and bitterness shown in someone’s attitudes, speech, or actions. (द्वेष)
Synonyms: Rancour, Vitriol, Spite, Animus, Malevolence
Antonyms: Affection, Amity, Cordiality, Empathy, Benevolence
Example: She looked at him with eyes that spat venom.
- Endow (Verb): Meaning: provide with a quality, ability, or asset. (प्रदान करना)
Synonyms: Endue, Empower, Bestow, Equip, Confer
Antonyms: Disendow, Dispossess, Take Away, Withhold
Example: Mathematics seems to endow one with something like a new sense.